Dear DH....

On Sunday 26 April, you telephoned me and asked me if you could keep the boys for a third night. I said no, as the boys and I had arrangements for the Monday morning, and so you asked to return the boys home early by 6.30pm. When I rang you at 8.30pm to ask you where they were, you told me that you had "forgotten" to return them to me. You told me that they were at your home, with you, and told me that they would stay overnight.

This was an obvious act of pretending to agree with me and then doing exactly what you wanted to anyway.

On Sunday May 10, you dropped the boys back home to me ONE HOUR EARLIER than was usual. Without notifying me in advance.

Tonight, Wednesday 20 May, you dropped the boys back home to me ONE HOUR EARLIER than is usual. Without notifying me in advance.

This behaviour is exactly in tune with your habit of leaving the country without notifying me, and lying to me in person and in affidavits, but.... worse than that... it is DANGEROUS for the boys. You didn't check to see if I was home. You just dropped them off and drove away without caring whether they were locked out, or left at home alone. This is unbelievable behaviour from a man who is claiming to want to spend more time with his children.

The boys told me that you have enrolled in an Acting Class which will take place every Wednesday evening. And that, because of that class, you intend to drop them home by 6.30pm every Wednesday. You have neither asked me nor informed me of this change to our arrangement.

They tell me that you have been studying acting for a while now. I notice that you did not include fees for acting classes on your financial statements either to the Family Court of Australia or to the Child Support Agency. You also omitted to declare the house, monies and shares that you inherited from your father's estate to the Child Support Agency, and the monies and shares to the Family Court.

I know I can't convince you to stop lying to me and to the authorities, but I hope that I CAN convince you to stop putting the children at risk by dropping them off at home earlier than arranged without ensuring that I am there to look after them.

I will expect them at 6.30pm on Wednesdays from now on. Any change to this arrangement must be made with ME, by email. It is unforgivable to expect the boys to let me know about this or any other change to our arrangements.

Fe.